Friday is always a happy day. The weekend looms along with it’s parties and sports and whatever else you’re into. However, there is still a full work day to go! Don’t let the weekend distract you. You should be more easily motivated on this happy day but it’s also very easy to get distracted. Don’t go thinking about that perfect taco you’re going to make yourself this weekend, keep the nose to the grindstone, you’re nearly there!
I was going to do a profile on some successful person but thankfully, Business Insider already did it for me :). Here’s a list of 15 billionaires that came from nothing! : http://www.businessinsider.com/billionaires-who-came-from-nothing-2013-12?op=1
You have to admit it’s always a cause of great awe (and jeolousy, sometimes) to read about people like these. Coming from a poor background, to me, isn’t the hardest way to make your millions, it’s the only way. When I do make it and become wealthy my children won’t even know I have money. No one will know.
I grew up pretty poor until about the age of 8. That’s when my parents both landed jobs at the big factory I spoke about in the first thread of this blog. They worked and studied hard and made their way to respectable positions in the hierarchy. They stayed workers their whole time there, never becoming managers or anything like that, but they earned good salaries.
Needless to say they spoiled me, which I appreciated at the time but after school realised probably wasn’t the best way to bring up a kid. I never really learnt the lesson of hard work = rewards until after school. Actually, I missed out on quite a few hard life lessons I had to learn myself by making the mistakes.
So anyway, enough about me. The point I’m trying to make is the only time my kids get something they want from me is if they work for it. I don’t think it’s healthy for them to get what they want regardless. It’s just going to make their take-off into life all the more bumpy. Whether I’m rich or poor, my kids won’t get a thing until they’ve worked for it.
Now looking at the list, some of these guys were probably more-or-less where you are now. They made it. I’m pretty sure they didn’t all sell their souls to the devil either. They achieved what they achieved through good, hard work. They obviously worked very smart too – don’t forget that.
What I’m saying is if they could do it anyone can. Why would you just want to be anyone though? Go to the next step! Make it even bigger! Success to me isn’t measured in financial wealth so I could give a damn about my financial situation. Success to me is measured in the accomplishment of your goals. As an aspiring novelist I’ll probably never see the billions these guys have but if I can live comfotably off of royalties I’d say that’s success.
If my novels are changing lives and making people happy regardless of whether I’ve made millions, I’d say that’s success. Our journey through life isn’t about making billions, that doesn’t bring happiness. Our journey through life, from my personal point of view, is about how big a diffence (for the better) we can make to the world around us. We’re here to help each other.
I hope most people will agree with me on this. If not, whatever – go chase your own dreams! Whether it’s to be the biggest chicken killer on earth or to be the best hippie, the choice is yours. I’m not here to judge I’m here to try my best to help!
Enjoy your weekend! I’ll see if I can post during the weekend sometime but usually that’s impossible. Weekends are family time and work around the house time so we’ll see.