Well, goodbye for now!

Ok so I might be without internet for a month or so, so this could well be my last post for a good long while. I hope the message I’m trying to relay as helped others as it has helped me. I won’t give up on this blog though, I’ll be back as soon as I can. I might even take a few trips to the local internet cafe while I’m “internetless”.

So today I just want to apologize for not posting religiously this week, it’s been a rough week with the move and all. Next week we’ll be pretty much settled in the new place, so that’s good.

I’m reading Odd Thomas by Dean Koontz at the moment and it’s pretty awesome, just so you know! Defintely reccomend!

One more thing; I got stung by a wasp on my neck yesterday while mowing the lawn. One of these bad boys: Ouch

Never in my 26 years have I been stung by a wasp before Sabie. It’s been twice in the year since I’ve arrived here. Nature seems to not like me much. First one was on the ear and that was significantly worse than the second.

Unfortunately this entry isn’t much about motivation, all I can say about that today is stand strong. No matter what the circumstances are, you will get through if you don’t give up. Just keep going at it relentlessly and somewhere, somehow, you will get your breakthrough. Never give up. Never give up. And always remember: “It’s not over until I win!”

Cheers

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Where did Monday go?

I know we could all use some motivation on a monday morning, but would you believe it, I completely forgot to post yesterday morning. I have a lot on my plate at the moment – I’m drafting a business plan, I’m trying to stay ahead on my editing, I’m trying to support my little instant family. On top of all this we’re moving into a different house which is really breaking the bank, so I’ve been plotting ways to turn over a few quick bucks. At one point I was so desperate I considered selling one of my guitars! (I only have 3 and I’m super sentimental about all of them)

So enough about my problems, hope your week started out great! Monday is always a tough one. I, personally, like Mondays :). Call me crazy but it’s like a fresh start every time. A new week, new opportunities, etc. If you hate Mondays it would probably be wise to change your mindset. Monday’s are great if you make them so! The rest of the week isn’t too bad either!

Okay so, on to motivation. Quite a while ago I stumbled onto a video by Actualised.org (youtube channel) and came across this strange looking skinny man. I quickly realised this guy might just know what he’s talking about. He speaks of all things “success-y” in life. It’s pretty cool, you should definitely check it out. It’s very difficult not to get infected by his enthusiasm for life.

The video is titled How To Succeed In Life and yes, it’s a whole 14 minutes long, but it’s well worth the watch. Why not check out a few of his other videos while you’re at it? He really brings something interesting to the table with each one of his vids. I admit I haven’t done any research on him (pressed for time at the moment you know!) but he seems to be a success story on his own.

All I wanted to do today was bring you that video and apologize for not posting yesterday, so that’s pretty much it.

Oh wait! The business plan I’m putting together might change a lot of things. I’m going for a business that isn’t too labour-intensive so that I have time for my writing. The more I plan, the more labour intensive it seems to be; but whatever. The potential for profits is rather large! I’m going to have to get finance and, being in South Africa, I may need to try and find a black partner, but it looks really good.

I have much planning yet to do, lots of number crunching, but what I have on paper so far should get at least a few investors interested. So we’ll see. I’ll update on the progress every so often 🙂

Happy belated Monday and have a great week!

Cheers.

It’s the weekend!

Friday is always a happy day. The weekend looms along with it’s parties and sports and whatever else you’re into. However, there is still a full work day to go! Don’t let the weekend distract you. You should be more easily motivated on this happy day but it’s also very easy to get distracted. Don’t go thinking about that perfect taco you’re going to make yourself this weekend, keep the nose to the grindstone, you’re nearly there!

I was going to do a profile on some successful person but thankfully, Business Insider already did it for me :). Here’s a list of 15 billionaires that came from nothing! : http://www.businessinsider.com/billionaires-who-came-from-nothing-2013-12?op=1

You have to admit it’s always a cause of great awe (and jeolousy, sometimes) to read about people like these. Coming from a poor background, to me, isn’t the hardest way to make your millions, it’s the only way. When I do make it and become wealthy my children won’t even know I have money. No one will know.

I grew up pretty poor until about the age of 8. That’s when my parents both landed jobs at the big factory I spoke about in the first thread of this blog. They worked and studied hard and made their way to respectable positions in the hierarchy. They stayed workers their whole time there, never becoming managers or anything like that, but they earned good salaries.

Needless to say they spoiled me, which I appreciated at the time but after school realised probably wasn’t the best way to bring up a kid. I never really learnt the lesson of hard work = rewards until after school. Actually, I missed out on quite a few hard life lessons I had to learn myself by making the mistakes.

So anyway, enough about me. The point I’m trying to make is the only time my kids get something they want from me is if they work for it. I don’t think it’s healthy for them to get what they want regardless. It’s just going to make their take-off into life all the more bumpy. Whether I’m rich or poor, my kids won’t get a thing until they’ve worked for it.

Now looking at the list, some of these guys were probably more-or-less where you are now. They made it. I’m pretty sure they didn’t all sell their souls to the devil either. They achieved what they achieved through good, hard work. They obviously worked very smart too – don’t forget that.

What I’m saying is if they could do it anyone can. Why would you just want to be anyone though? Go to the next step! Make it even bigger! Success to me isn’t measured in financial wealth so I could give a damn about my financial situation. Success to me is measured in the accomplishment of your goals. As an aspiring novelist I’ll probably never see the billions these guys have but if I can live comfotably off of royalties I’d say that’s success.

If my novels are changing lives and making people happy regardless of whether I’ve made millions, I’d say that’s success. Our journey through life isn’t about making billions, that doesn’t bring happiness. Our journey through life, from my personal point of view, is about how big a diffence (for the better) we can make to the world around us. We’re here to help each other.

I hope most people will agree with me on this. If not, whatever – go chase your own dreams! Whether it’s to be the biggest chicken killer on earth or to be the best hippie, the choice is yours. I’m not here to judge I’m here to try my best to help!

Enjoy your weekend! I’ll see if I can post during the weekend sometime but usually that’s impossible. Weekends are family time and work around the house time so we’ll see.

Cheers.

Motivation Thursday

Ok so today I’ll be posting something a little different. I’ll be posting something that, if you are following this blog to get motivated, you might not need it anymore. It’s another blog post from some other site that states that motivation cannot be created by outside influence, but only within yourself. This is definetely true.

Here’s the link: http://startupbros.com/killing-the-7-motivation-murderers/

Anyway, let me tell you about my day yesterday. I was feeling incredibly down. Some days will be harder that’s for sure – but yesterday was a big one. After feeling down all day I received a phone call at about 4 pm. It was the car finance company to which I had to return my car since I couldn’t afford it anymore (times have been hard, you know?). My car sold for a mere R33 000, meaning I still owe R23 000 on it. Combine that with my R15 000 in credit card debt and I’m in a pretty bad place.

Still, I won’t let that get to me. I decided this morning to quit smoking, amplifying all the bad feelings too. I won’t let that get to me. There comes a point when you realise that even if times are hard and days are dark, things will only affect you if you let them.

I, for example, with all these troubles, feel even more motivated. I have debt to take care of as well as a little family – it just makes me hungrier for success. Even though I didn’t blog yesterday I still worked on my novel. I will be doing so every day for the rest of my life. Not on the same novel I hope but on writing, which is what I really want to do.

I know I haven’t got the worst situation in the world, but to each person their problems seem like the biggest. You already know how to get around your problems! All that “look past the problem” or “tell the problem how big your God is” and yadda yadda – the point is, I’m not going to go into that. You already know, like me, how to solve your problems. Now just find the means to do it.

If you read the blog post I’ve linked you probably won’t need any extra motivation for today, but I want to leave you with a thought. This guy quit money. Read the article it’s quite interesting. I’m not suggesting we all give our shit away and go live in the wild, but there’s a lot you can learn from this guy. You have to admit, his world seems pretty awesome to live in. (especially if you’re a natural loner, like me.)

Cheers.

Some days will be harder

If you, perhaps, like me, feel a little down today, you can do one of two things. Listen to your favourite, uplifting songs and lose yourself in them for a few minutes, or watch this video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Z_1qY_Bqj5U

It’s another motivational video and what is said is pretty solid. It’s basically something along the lines of “once you defeat yourself, life can’t help but dance to your tune.” At least, that’s my thoughts on the video.

Now that you’re all motivated from watching the video, let’s get down to some actual work. I am doing two things today and would like you to do them with me. First I’m going to make a list of 10 things that I enjoy doing that don’t cost me money. You’ll need to think hard for this one but once you have your list make a point to do those things more often. Don’t overdo it of course, you still need to work.

Second let us list our goals. This one is rather easy for me. My short term goal would be to get my book edited and get it to an agent (since I’m aiming at the US market from South Africa I have to go for an agent). Another short term goal is to do a refresher course in Maths and Science. My medium term goal (the next year or two) I want to be enrolled in a mechanical engineering course and have my novel published.

My long term goals (5-10 years) are a little harder. I’m not one to plan that far ahead. I feel that one should be concentrating on the now and therefore medium term goals are enough for me. If you like to plan ahead and long term goals make sense to you by all means list them!

Right so, I need to get to work. First though, I’m going to give Jimmy Cliffs’ I Can See Clearly Now another listen.

I’d like to leave you with the following thought: “You are your own worst enemy when it comes to success. Once you defeat yourself you’ve made it most of the way.” Think about that.

Cheers,

PS – a thought crossed my mind just now, my novel has nothing to do with motivation, it’s a medieval fantasy horror, just so you know. I’m not some motivational guru or anything, I’m just a guy chasing his dream and trying to get others to do it with me, while finding motivation in others.